Desert Island
If you were stranded on a desert island, what three items would you bring? A classic conversation starter that reveals priorities and creativity.
How to Play
Pose the question: "If you were stranded on a desert island and could only bring three items, what would they be?"
Give everyone 2-3 minutes to think about their answer.
Go around the group, with each person sharing their three items and explaining why.
Encourage follow-up questions and discussion about each person's choices.
The group can vote on who has the best survival strategy.
Facilitator Tips
Prompt people to think practically AND creatively.
This is great for revealing personality — highlight the interesting patterns.
Can be done while sitting in a circle, at dinner tables, or while walking.
Variations & Twists
Desert Island Person: Who would you bring instead of what?
Desert Island with Constraints: "You can bring one tool, one food, and one luxury item."
Apocalypse Version: "What three items would you grab during a zombie apocalypse?"
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